alittleunloved Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 I'm in a relationship and I have a problem. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 2 months now, and a couple weeks ago he got drunk and went to a party, where he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. We live 100 miles from each other but I visit him via train sometimes. I'm going over his for New Years but I'm really unsure whether I made the right decision or not. I like him too much to let him go but the trust has slipped a little. If I break up with him I'll have no one seen as I don't have any friends here and he's the only person I an talk too. I need help! Should I have forgiven and stayed in a relationship with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apollo Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Depends on how committed you are. On the note of the "No friends here" thing, my advice is to just get out and meet people. Nothing starts a friendship like a random conversation! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanako 花子 Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Gurl, you made the right decision. He already did it once, what makes you think he won't do it again? The temptation will always be there and it will intensify especially under the circumstances you two are in. Also, take Chris' advice. Meet people. :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hi-c Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 well it's only been two months...and like hanako said if he did once then he'll eventually do it again...and i think the long distance between you two would increase those chances of happening...m sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Bunny Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Trust me I've beeb there , done that. I forgave him after he cheated on me once. Then about two months later i got a phone call from my best friend saying that he had three other girlfriends . So I dumped him. Trust me I wouldn't forgive him if I was you , but personally that's just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apollo Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 The verdict seems to be light the torches and grab your pitchforks. My opinion is a 100 mile train ride takes too long when it comes to going and slapping his dirty cheating face. Do you have access to a bullet train, perchance? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cia ???? Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Ditch him and do not meet up with him again. The end, Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apollo Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Listen to the words o' Cia. He is very wise. Tis why he's King. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NathanBorgie Posted December 27, 2013 Share Posted December 27, 2013 I doubt this guy actually cares about relationships. Please ditch him for your own good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeswaitno Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 He cheated after 2 months? He sounds like a ho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma_Nightmare Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 I agree. He is no good. End it. ( I know that is harsh,but he is a cheater don't go back)If he cared about the relationship between you he wouldn't of done that to you.I don't understand when people cheat! If you wanted another person why started a relationship.If you need someone I bet there is more then a few lovely, Intelligent people on this site who would talk to you. Try meeting some new people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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