assassin Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 is it wrong to end a long standing relationship just because you dont think your good enough to b with that person? or, because you argue alot? is it bad that the girl i gave my life to did that for those reasons?...............
WasteOfMind Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 If you dont think you are good enough, and/or you argue alot, there are more things than just that which are problems.
assassin Posted October 11, 2013 Author Posted October 11, 2013 we both though we weren't good enough for eachother, and though we argued i was the only one trying to fix thing
Cia ???? Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Well for one, over-dramatising a relationship is an issue. You're 17, I very much doubt you 'gave your life to her'. If either party doesn't think they're good enough or right for each other than that's pretty much going to doom a relationship also, since determinism would apply and therefore cause problems in that relationship to support their own worries. The only exception to that would be to 'prove' they are good enough. Proving does not mean telling them and it takes different methods to prove things to different people, meaning I can't really suggest a method for you. Arguing all the time obviously ruins a relationship but as per my point above, if the source of the arguing was the doubts then the same fix would apply. If the arguing was for different reasons then you would have to resolve the issues being argued about. This is not done by arguing until you win.
XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 All relationships have arguing so its normal. Ive also felt like I wasnt good enough but I still didnt end the relationship. If the other person thinks your not good enough then why waste your time with that person. Normally if you think youre not good enough the other person doesnt think so.
assassin Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 well i finally ended my depressed stage, and all of you are right. now me and my ex are friends and things have never been better just wanted to thank you guys for sharing opinions. will be posting a new topic soon keep them coming, laters
XxEmoKittyCatxX Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Hehe and now your mines :3 hehe love you assassin cx you mean the world to me !! Im not gonna hurt you ... Ive been broken to many times ....
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