Elbakcil Posted May 24, 2012 Share Posted May 24, 2012 please help me i just recently (today) got cheated on and i feel horrible so badly.. i trusted her and i was one of her only friends and iv been with her thro everything and this is how she repays me? Who should i be more angry at? Iv decided that im much more angry at him but im not forgiving her.. I really dont know what to do i am so upset that either of them would do this to me! PLEASE HELP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXPianomanXx Posted May 24, 2012 Share Posted May 24, 2012 It sucks getting backstabbed... it really does. All I can say personally is I hope you make it through this. Best of luck to you. I wish I could help you, I really do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoserGirlNamedKilo Posted May 24, 2012 Share Posted May 24, 2012 Shit...I wouldn't forgive them either but did you ask them why the hell they did that to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elbakcil Posted May 25, 2012 Author Share Posted May 25, 2012 Well iv talked more and he aparently felt as if i wasnt spendin enough time with him (which i spent 24 hours with) but most time i had friends around.. which after we broke up i found out he didnt like. And i dont really know why she did but she didnt tell me cus she thought he should and he didnt tell me cus he thought it was the right thing cus ild get upset.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoserGirlNamedKilo Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Yeah I hang out with my Penguin 24-7 with friends family or alone. To my thinking he is being selfish...I don't know I need more on this subject before I can give my opinion or advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXPaulLuvsUmbreonXx Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Ive got cheated on too :'( I thought he loved me but he fucking lied!!!! so yeah I dumped him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elbakcil Posted May 26, 2012 Author Share Posted May 26, 2012 Yeah I hang out with my Penguin 24-7 with friends family or alone. To my thinking he is being selfish...I don't know I need more on this subject before I can give my opinion or advice. I know what you mean. iv never been cheated on before and i hav bad self esteem issues so this didnt help.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoserGirlNamedKilo Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 I know what you mean. iv never been cheated on before and i hav bad self esteem issues so this didnt help.. I completely understand that. My self-esteem is still n the low. I still say he was being selfish...Sorry but like if Penguin ever did that to me I wouldn't be able to handle it...last time I thought something was up no one could stop me from bawling until he came up and told me himself nothing happened and I believed him because 10 others were saying the same thing...but since you actually seen ours cheat well I don't know, but don't let your self-esteem issues tell you that he's the only one who noticed you. Don't let them say "go back go back...he's the only one who does love you" cause that is straight up bull. Penguin told me that if he didn't ask me out others would have and that most guys do cheated me out. I'm beating the same deal is for you hun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnoMonsterBunny Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 It depends. How close are you? This is where you take a second look at your friendship. True friendship is based on truth. And second chances are crucial. Talk to them!!! Try to work this out. Because you may end up regretting it. ☆*:.｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DemonTacoo Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 Awhz that sucks. Ive been cheated on twice, it hurts a lot. Same thing with being Back stabbed. Pain, You cant get away from it. Best thing to do is wish for the best. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jewel Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 Although you hurt now, realize several things. There were obviously problems in the relationship. She should have discussed these issues with you even if it was just that she was not ready to commit. Now that things are in the open, don't blame yourself. She wasn't mature enough to communicate with you so move on. I know it hurts, but you need people in your life who care and repect you, not giving lip service. Talk is cheap and their actions have spoken volumes. Hold your head up high and give yourself the repect they didn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elbakcil Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 Well turns out me and him dont talk but i ended up getting over him and she went and did the same to another relationship yesterday and broke them up.. They both wernt worth trusting in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elbakcil Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 But thankyou for your advice it did help!! xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotpot106 Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I know how you feel, my only friends from school, don't even care or try to talk to me anymore and I've been really depressed lately. Whenever I try to have feelings for people, they just throw me away like I'm nothing to them and I've been in tears multiple times because of it :''( But I'm always here for people :") Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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