(My idea) of long distance relationships

[Metules]

dear boys, males, guys on the internet who are attracted to females, you all do not have a shot in hell for a women who is distant and has someone else in mind who is local... good day

[PurpleKitty]

lolz you tell em Matt xD

[deeza]

THEY SAID THEY COULD NEVER PUT A MAN ON THE MOON..

 

end rant.

[Amz]

LOL

 

Taht's so fucked up

 

Yet true

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

long distance relationships dont really work

[Amz]

ACTUALLY

 

I know one that works.

 

The girl is in America, and the boy is in England. And this relationship has lasted long.

 

It's adorable. He plans on coming to America once he has the money

 

If you've seen anything of their relationship, you would melt!

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

sum wrk out but i think most dont

[EvilActivity]

I think you gotta be devoted. I Can't be devoted. If i cannot physically see, shake hands, hug, high five, or visually look into your eyes... the most important piece of attraction is forgotten and that magic we all feel as love cannot work. I cannot see me putting myself out on the line like that. This is just me of course and how I can't be devoted like that.

[Mariella_Rose]

I can say from experience, long distance relationships are trying. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now, but he moved away about a year into our relationship. He's in Florida now, but we still try to connect when we can. We use Skype, IMs, and everynow and then when we get the money one of us tries to visit the other. I just visited him over Spring break this year and we had our own vacation to Disneyland. Trust me, I had to save a bunch of money for that one, lol. But we've worked things out over the years and we plan on by this coming up May on finally having our own apartment together. Just waiting for him to finish his college education and then he can move. A long distance relationship requires devotion and commitment, along with faith and trust. Yes, we've had our share of arguments, but we've eventually gotten over them and we've moved on. However, we couldn't be happier and can't imagine ourselves without each other. In fact, when he came to visit over Christmas I got the best present ever - my engagement ring. <3 We won't plan the wedding until he's done with college, but we both know for a fact that bigger and better things are on the way.

[.Dark.]

I think long distance relationships are fine as long as your honest and you communicate I was with James fora little over a year and he lives in Kansas I'm in Colorado.

[ChupaChup^^]

Matt, but u don't do it, u go togheter with girls and then left her

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

depends who r in the relationship...if theyre both trusworthy n faithful it might work

[The Lord Of Darkness]

if i ever did a long distance relationship again each week id fly out to them spend a few days or i would fly them into see me!..should have done that last time but i was 16 at the time haha

[Guest Emo4Lyf]

Internet relationships are fail, do not work and completely lulzy. Long-distance with someone who moved away is difficult yet plausible and slightly cute.

 

Ever had a bf/gf you couldn't hug, kiss, go out with or (I'm afraid it's valid) sleep with? There's a term for that, friends. That's what internet relationships are, just friends.

 

You can lace it up with heartfelt woes and all your cybering, talking dirty or sharing pics because this is essentially on the same level as flirting, not dating. It is oh so easy to let your 'heart out' on the web, why? Because it's a lie. You cannot love someone you've never been with personally, it's that simple.

 

If you believe otherwise then I'm afraid you're simply young, naive and clueless on what love means.

 

Also, Amii.

 

'It's adorable. He plans on coming to America once he has the money'

 

This is not something to his credit, but proof of my point. They've lasted a long time and he still 'plans' to when he has money? He is not there and therefore failing to do anything whatsoever. I would not melt at that, I would laugh.

[Silky-Potato]

Well what snow said, but Ben and Marlee (veterans of this site) met on the internet, have been together 2-3 years now, and he's been to see her in america, and I think she's currently in england seeing him. Theyre pretty young but they're sickly in love. internet relationships are more often fail than not.

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

if the two ppl want to be commited to the other i gues it can work...

[Guest Emo4Lyf]

if the two ppl want to be commited to the other i gues it can work...

 

You're missing the point. That sounds all good and well but what exactly are you committing too? You have nothing really.

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

well if uv met each other already n theyre in a relationship...n the ther person might b in another country for buisness purposes, having that commitment to the other person and loyalty wud keep the relationship going... it cud work

[xTanx14<3Andy6]

iv had 3 long distance realationships and they didnt last very long even though you love the person that you are with there is always that worry that they culd be with someone else that lives close to them and they think the same so they is really no point in them unless you are really commited

[Dharma]

true shiznet