kuddlebear6000 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 So, lately I've been noticing that I've been just desperate for love. I mean, I was with this guy, and the usual happened: I had up all my walls [ which normally defend pretty Well] and he pulled them down. And when a guy like him holds you close and looks into Your eyes and with love in his says he'll never leave you believe him. So when my mom died, he was there with me. And when I had no place to love, I was gonna move in with him. But when I was visiting my sister, he changed his profile pic to him and some girl ( whom he was sleeping with) then told me he only used me for the sex. Broke my heart. ( not only this but he burned his name into my arm leaving a narlly scar) I was close to the edge. Now that I'm over him I've realized: I'm never gonna find a hot emo guy like him. No hot emo guys want me. Non. And it sucks Because all I want and yern for is love. And for some reason I'm apparently just nothing. Anyone else have this problem and would like to give advice? I'm so damn tired of being alone.
XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) he seems like a complete jerk... well iv neva been in a proper relationship so i cant really give any gd advice... but wen im in a ish relationship it just ends just...urgh cuz i always end up shy n i cant talk n do stuff... n its prob gonna happen every time im wiv a guy... so im normally all alone n i constantly feel lonely cuz i can neva b NORMAL in a relationship, i just get all weird n crap >.> im like every girl n get crushes...n we all fantasise bout bein wiv em n stuff but i just kno everything is just made up n my head cuz i wish i cud act normal wiv a guy... nearly everyone want love so your not alone ... n ouch wiv the burning name into ur arm thing :/ wth Edited October 2, 2012 by XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX
Guest Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) So, lately I've been noticing that I've been just desperate for love. I mean, I was with this guy, and the usual happened: I had up all my walls [ which normally defend pretty Well] and he pulled them down. And when a guy like him holds you close and looks into Your eyes and with love in his says he'll never leave you believe him. So when my mom died, he was there with me. And when I had no place to love, I was gonna move in with him. But when I was visiting my sister, he changed his profile pic to him and some girl ( whom he was sleeping with) then told me he only used me for the sex. Broke my heart. ( not only this but he burned his name into my arm leaving a narlly scar) I was close to the edge. Now that I'm over him I've realized: I'm never gonna find a hot emo guy like him. No hot emo guys want me. Non. And it sucks Because all I want and yern for is love. And for some reason I'm apparently just nothing. Anyone else have this problem and would like to give advice? I'm so damn tired of being alone. Pardon me for not being all aboard the Oprah pity party train, but you get zero sympathy from me. Your ending words give us a pretty incisive view into your real motives and wants. You don't want real love - nor do you expect to be treated as such. How do I figure? - You want a "hot emo guy." The term shallow comes to mind. So your lover has to be hot and emo to be deserving of your love? To that I say: Fuck you. - Not only did you let him fuck you at such a young age, but you let him burn his name into your arm? That's either a cry for attention or some daddy issues right there. - You're not even remotely old enough to know what the fuck you're talking about. "I'm never gonna find a hot emo guy like him. No hot emo guys want me. Non. And it sucks Because all I want and yern for is love." Translation: I'm never going to have what I want and yet I still expect you people to feel bad for me because they're not interested in a young, mentally feeble idiot. Only the shallow know themselves. --Oscar Wilde Edited October 2, 2012 by Meowmix
Secretangelconfessions Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I know how you feel and wow does it suck.
kuddlebear6000 Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 Um this is for people who can related not for people to judges. So I'll ask kindly, unless you have something positive to say, please say nothing. And u want no pitty. I want others to tell me their sTories so maybe THEY don't feel the way I did.
kuddlebear6000 Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 Oh, and when I said hot emo guy, you took that too liretaliate. I said that meaning not a stuck up dbag. NOT the stereo type.
Panty Raid Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Pardon me for not being all aboard the Oprah pity party train, but you get zero sympathy from me. Your ending words give us a pretty incisive view into your real motives and wants. You don't want real love - nor do you expect to be treated as such. How do I figure? - You want a "hot emo guy." The term shallow comes to mind. So your lover has to be hot and emo to be deserving of your love? To that I say: Fuck you. - Not only did you let him fuck you at such a young age, but you let him burn his name into your arm? That's either a cry for attention or some daddy issues right there. - You're not even remotely old enough to know what the fuck you're talking about. "I'm never gonna find a hot emo guy like him. No hot emo guys want me. Non. And it sucks Because all I want and yern for is love." Translation: I'm never going to have what I want and yet I still expect you people to feel bad for me because they're not interested in a young, mentally feeble idiot. Only the shallow know themselves. --Oscar Wilde you sir, are now on my potential friend list!
Storm Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Pardon me for not being all aboard the Oprah pity party train, but you get zero sympathy from me. Your ending words give us a pretty incisive view into your real motives and wants. You don't want real love - nor do you expect to be treated as such. How do I figure? - You want a "hot emo guy." The term shallow comes to mind. So your lover has to be hot and emo to be deserving of your love? To that I say: Fuck you. - Not only did you let him fuck you at such a young age, but you let him burn his name into your arm? That's either a cry for attention or some daddy issues right there. - You're not even remotely old enough to know what the fuck you're talking about. "I'm never gonna find a hot emo guy like him. No hot emo guys want me. Non. And it sucks Because all I want and yern for is love." Translation: I'm never going to have what I want and yet I still expect you people to feel bad for me because they're not interested in a young, mentally feeble idiot. Only the shallow know themselves. --Oscar Wilde I agree with you
Guest Moon_Panda Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 oh c'mon give the girl a break. we'v all done stupid things of love or from heartbreak. for an example i took a razor and carved a heart on my chest when i was dumped.
Guest Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 oh c'mon give the girl a break. we'v all done stupid things of love or from heartbreak. for an example i took a razor and carved a heart on my chest when i was dumped. Be that as it may, some levels of stupid should not be tolerated, and especially not be glorified or validated through excessive coddling. If your dog pisses on the carpet, you don't embrace it and say, "Dawwhhh hawww, it's okay." You smack him in the nose with a newspaper. Same principle.
Amz Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 No hot emo guys want me. I'm sick of this "emo" term shit. Sometimes I want to say you're going to deserve shit when you're asking for looks. What if you were blind ? You wouldn't be complaining then, would you ? NO. Why ? Because for one thing, you wouldn't be looking for looks, you'd finally get past that and look in PERSONALITY. THE THING THAT MATTERS. And secondly, what if people weren't lining up to be with you because you were blind ? Looks aren't everything.
Silky-Potato Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Oh, and when I said hot emo guy, you took that too liretaliate. I said that meaning not a stuck up dbag. NOT the stereo type. Oh my god. You have so much to learn. Hot emo guy means physically good looking boy who is obsessed with his image You seem to think that there's some gorgeous tortured soul wandering the earth in search for his 'true emo babe' and that he'll give you romantic and meaningful love. New's flash. The majority of good looking people are stuck so high up their own arses that they can't remember what sunshine looks like. Attractive people tend to know it, and if they know it they tend to let it go to their head. I have a friend who is gorgeous but he's a massive arse and plays girls like a game of chess. He's pretty but no way on earth would I ever consider dating him. When you said hot emo guy you were stereotyping. Don't be so specific, look for genuine people if you want genuine care. You're coming off as extremely shallow so it's no wonder you find yourself being taken advantage of if you only care about someones appearance. Plus, people aren't being mean, you asked for advice and they're giving it to you. We're not here to panda to your booboos
Storm Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 oh c'mon give the girl a break. we'v all done stupid things of love or from heartbreak. for an example i took a razor and carved a heart on my chest when i was dumped. My boy friend dumped me my mom hates me I have carved more things in my skin then just some dudes name I watched my grandmother shoot herself in the head and yes I do have to see a skrink over that but you don't see me complaining. Give her a break well forgive me No offense to the men who don't do this but us females are very responsive to loving words and some men know what to say to get us to be like "putty" so to say in their hands. It's not the mans fault in a way that he knows how to work us it's our fault (the woman) for not having a strong enough will over our hormones. I could sit here and complain about my life but what good would it do? Why would I tell everyone my problems when there is nothing they can do or say that would help? Give her a break some people have bigger problems then wanting to be with someone and others don't so please do forgive me if I have stepped on anyones toes. Your tired of being alone well stop talking to just one person your friends are just as good as a relationship and it doesn't hurt as bad as loosing someone you let have your whole heart when you loose a friend. It hurts just not as much.
kuddlebear6000 Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Thank you for your comments and this was not me being shallow or stupid or craving pitty, iou t was for people who have been there with advise of how you overcame it. and Ya I loved him, and Ya I regret letting him burn me, that's Why I tattooed over it. But thank you for the help. And Ya I have a bf now.
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