i need help asap please?

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ok i was dateing this guy and he wanted to take a break tho he said i could date other guys i kissed one when we werent dateing and he's mad and upset about it we r back together but i dont know if that is bascially cheating if him and i were still hanging out the guy that i kissed we dont talk anymore....i need help please?

[Guest Oh.]

I don't understand what you need help with...

[Guest Moon_Panda]

if you weren't together at the time you kissed the other guy then thats not cheating.

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i didnt think so but he said we were on a break and that we both promised that we wouldnt date other people and i didnt date the other guy nor did i promise that so he says he felt like i did and that he feels betrayed i get that but whe him and i we on the break we were fighting and i wasnt ok but the guy i kissed was comforting me at the time....idk

[Guest Moon_Panda]

correct me if i'm wrong but, when your on a break then that means you'r not dating, you are single. when you'r single that means you CAN be vounrable to the romantic advancments of others, and at some point you caved in and couldn't take the pain anymore and you wanted someone to comfort you, and when your boyfriend wasn't around you gave in to the temptation of kissing some other guy, who comforted you at the time.

 

there is no need for you to feel bad, just cos he misunderstood you. instead you should take this as a sign that he realy like you, he wouldnt make a big deal out of it if he didn't care.

 

and lastly : fights happen, just as in the same way there can be no peac without war, happiness without saddness, and love without hate and you can't reach perfection without making a few mistakes along the way.

when after your fight you are still together, then that means you bouth work to keep the relationship going, and you bouth care about eachother.

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wow thanks i really like that thank you so much

[XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX]

ahh well if he wanted a break n sed u cud date other guys... idk why hed get pissed off wiv u kissing another dude...he gave u permission.

but i personally wudnt hav dated another guy if he wanted a break thou...if he told me he wanted it to end then yeah id date...

weird lol

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lolz thanks XD