Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 I used to cut, but then the school figured out and then they forced me to tell my parents. So, I obviously stopped then. Of course, I love looking at the scars once in a while.. But uhm. Now, I tear at myself. And, recently I got an idea by watching Vampire Knight/Vampire Knight Guilty x_o I saw Zero Kiryu tear at his neck and make it bleed. So, now I scratch at my neck like that. Or just tear at myself slowly. I'm not sure what else to do :\ cause tearing is my substitute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BondFancy Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 I used to cut' date=' but then the school figured out and then they forced me to tell my parents. So, I obviously stopped then. Of course, I love looking at the scars once in a while.. But uhm. Now, I tear at myself. And, recently I got an idea by watching Vampire Knight/Vampire Knight Guilty x_o I saw Zero Kiryu tear at his neck and make it bleed. So, now I scratch at my neck like that. Or just tear at myself slowly. I'm not sure what else to do :\ cause tearing is my substitute. [/quote'] I used to scratch the fuck out my leg with my nails... I also used to bleat some metal and rock music as well.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 I used to cut' date=' but then the school figured out and then they forced me to tell my parents. So, I obviously stopped then. Of course, I love looking at the scars once in a while.. But uhm. Now, I tear at myself. And, recently I got an idea by watching Vampire Knight/Vampire Knight Guilty x_o I saw Zero Kiryu tear at his neck and make it bleed. So, now I scratch at my neck like that. Or just tear at myself slowly. I'm not sure what else to do :\ cause tearing is my substitute. [/quote'] I used to scratch the fuck out my leg with my nails... I also used to bleat some metal and rock music as well.... When I was younger, I would scream my freakin head off into a pillow. A pillow so it would be muffled. Now I just tear. >.< Of course an anime gives me the idea of tearing. Pft. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Emo4Lyf Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 i guess really.. for a substitute it'd depend very heavily on the actual feeling you get when doing such action 0.o since what you're aiming for is just a way to reciprocate that emotion without the process... it's like alcoholics drinking endless water when cutting back or quitting... the process of simply drinking mimics some of the effects, not all obviously but some... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadow_carrie_ Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 It also depends on who you are. One substitution may work for one person, but not another. And how emotional you are, some emos aren't as emotional as others, and some times it depends on that. There are many substitiutions and reasons for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 Good points. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scribe Posted August 4, 2009 Share Posted August 4, 2009 Doing what you see on TV is not an examle on how to do anything especially if it has to do with vampires. find something less or not destructive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 100%BrokeN Posted August 4, 2009 Share Posted August 4, 2009 Doing what you see on TV is not an examle on how to do anything especially if it has to do with vampires. find something less or not destructive AgreedXD you should try something creative like drawing writing or playing instruments *shrugs* just a thought... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Emo4Lyf Posted August 4, 2009 Share Posted August 4, 2009 Doing what you see on TV is not an examle on how to do anything especially if it has to do with vampires. find something less or not destructive sucking blood from virgins is actually quite enthralling i'll have you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 4, 2009 Share Posted August 4, 2009 Doing what you see on TV is not an examle on how to do anything especially if it has to do with vampires. find something less or not destructive But' date=' of course it makes me feel better. Doing what you see on TV is not an examle on how to do anything especially if it has to do with vampires. find something less or not destructive sucking blood from virgins is actually quite enthralling i'll have you know. That's uhm lovely. But, I'm only 13 o_o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 100%BrokeN Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 They don't listen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 They don't listen lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drone Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 i always just use music as a substitute after my sister told my parents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scribe Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 why are all of your threads about cutting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 why are all of your threads about cutting? I didn't notice until you pointed that out. And, I just started a second one. It's just about things I wonder. And, it wasn't about cutting. It was about schools, aho (that was japanese) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drone Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 why do you think cutting is okay broken bimbo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Broken hearted 4ever more Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 I never said it's ok. Cutting just isn't for everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wingshot Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 1. Drone, that was kind of a mean thing to say. 2. Broken, my suggestion would be that instead of tearing you go for something (anything non-destructive) that will create something that is tangible. Sculpture usually works, I know a guy who took up programming and that helped, my cousin knits, etc. Cooking is the simplest thing out there and if you make something extravagant like a garnish then you should feel much better (it helps if you are genuinely interested in it). I've found that the most effective things are ones that the person has never done before so taking up a totally new hobby is a good idea. Now before I end this post I'll bust out the science aspect of it. The brain releases positive chemicals every time you create something tangible, no matter what it is. Ironically enough, cutting fulfills that requirement but so do a vast number of other things. If you'd like I can give like 3-4 pages on it but something tells me that would be excessive Hope it helps and feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EdJY Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Or do what I do which is punch holes through dry wall lolz jk I only do that when I'm super pisssed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 100%BrokeN Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Or do what I do which is punch holes through dry wall lolz jk I only do that when I'm super pisssed. Bad boy! No cookie for u And broken hearted forever more you should REALLY stop tearing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ~xXThePaperCutKidXx~ Posted August 20, 2009 Share Posted August 20, 2009 i dont see why people keep creating things. look, if the only reason you stopped was because your parents found out, then either, you have a large amount of will power (unlikely due to the topic of this thread) or you werent doing it wholeheartedly. now im not here to undermine your situation, because its all relative. but why would you stop only to start again in a different manner? it just seems.. i dont know what to call it. but yeah as for advicey things, just make yourself stop. dont think about it, doing it or anything like that. stop yourself. do something productive that will make you feel good about yourself, something satisfying, like, excersize or..drawing, or writing a story. if you want to get out some nasty feelings and this isnt working you can allways try freewriting- putting pen to paper and writing whatever comes into your head without thinking about it. i dont really care if you dont want to stop, because carrying on wont get you anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Snap a rubber band against your wrist, hold your breath till you pass out/almost pass out. Break glass, beat walls, fuck bitches. *ahem* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EdJY Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Or do what I do which is punch holes through dry wall lolz jk I only do that when I'm super pisssed. Bad boy! No cookie for u And broken hearted forever more you should REALLY stop tearing was it chocalte chip? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 100%BrokeN Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Or do what I do which is punch holes through dry wall lolz jk I only do that when I'm super pisssed. Bad boy! No cookie for u And broken hearted forever more you should REALLY stop tearing was it chocalte chip? Yup the best!! But you can dream on bunny boi u ain't gettin it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EdJY Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 Or do what I do which is punch holes through dry wall lolz jk I only do that when I'm super pisssed. Bad boy! No cookie for u And broken hearted forever more you should REALLY stop tearing was it chocalte chip? Yup the best!! But you can dream on bunny boi u ain't gettin it I'm realsing the bunnies!!!! They are rabid and hungry for cookies!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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