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My parents think its stupid meeting sumone on the internet n falling for them...

they keep sayin to me i shud find a REAL bf instead of a FAKE internet one >.>

i think they dont get that ppl can find their true loves on the internet as well as randomly meeting them too...

im shy so for me gettin a REAL bf isnt very easy >.<

plus they all seem like a bunch of dicks anyways...

ppl on web seem so much sweeter...

who knows who youll meet on the web...you both might even fall in love wiv each n actually get wiv each other

:)

 

(parents can b annoyin n can b worse than ur peers >.<)

grrz

Edited by XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX
Guest Emo4Lyf
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ppl on web seem so much sweeter...

 

People are no nicer on the web than in real life, it is just ten times easier to lie and exaggerate behind the screen.

 

I, personally believe it's perfectly possible to find someone nice on the web, but if you haven't met them in real life then I'm afraid you do not know them at all. As much as this may offend some people in online relationships you are essentially dating a stranger who you think you know, making it 10x more dangerous and making it 10x easier for them to screw you over.

 

For these reasons I completely and utterly agree with your parents unless said person is capable of proving they aren't a rapist/stalker (such as on cam) and meeting up fairly soon so you can actually know them.

 

Preeeetty sure Scribe will agree with me on this.

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I have to agree with snow on this one.

People can lie and "be anything" on the internet to lure someone in, etc. Could be some really bad person or someone only interested in you in a certain way (getting in your pants for a while kind of person who only uses others). There's a danger, yes, just like people in real life as well whom could easily lie as well, but it's usually more detectable in real life. As snow said, it's about making them prove what they are/aren't via cam.

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in internet i meeet so many guys with who i want be togheter. in LV i always looking for guy who isn't fat, but i see, in other countrys are so many boys who i don't care how they look, they are nice.

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The success rate of online relationships are more bad than good, I do know friends who have met their current girlfriend/boyfriend online that travel to see each other from america and england, and australia and scotland but I also know of friends who have been lied to horribly, or mistreated including myself.

It is possible, and it can be nice, some people prefer getting to know others online because it can be easier, but like scribe and snow have said it comes with a lot of risks. These days people are getting better at pretending to be other people, even using fake video loops when on cam.

There's nothing wrong with having online relationships, but IRL relationships are a lot better generally and tend to be healthier. Plus because it means you aren't just sitting down on the computer talking all the time.

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my past 2 relationships have been with ppl ive met online. 1 lasted 17months and the other lasted 3 years.

 

i have a rule though. before i meet up with them we had to talk on the phone quite often (gets rid of the awkwardness and stuff when eveentually meet up)

 

so im all for it but if you dont talk over the phone then thats a no no to meet up lol

  • 2 weeks later...
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My friend Anna met this chick on Facebook right? And they were talking for months and her mom agreed to take her to see her. So they met and now their together! yay.... :/

Edited by NickySaysRawr97
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I've dated a girl online who i was pretty close to. We were together about a year and a half until she dumped me. thanks for breaking my heart. So now i've got a girlfriend in real life and trust me,it's WAY better. <3

  • 4 weeks later...
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my bf lives in new zeland... couldnt care less what my mom thinks. if i get burned, ill get burned and move on. its my life....so....he wants me to move there :happy:; and im gonna!

Edited by Angel182

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