Catch&Release Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 my larents are giving me a really hard time, im13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amz Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 Well, some parents have a natural instinct not to like the "emo" look, usually because it is something new to them, frowned upon, ectera. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catch&Release Posted March 17, 2012 Author Share Posted March 17, 2012 how did u get ur parents to accept it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark&&Deadly666 Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 My mom really doesn't like it....I'm not allowed to dress the "emo" way, but I dress as simple and then next year when I get to high school...I will kick it up a nouch and she will just have to accept, because I really don't care what she thinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catch&Release Posted March 17, 2012 Author Share Posted March 17, 2012 not baad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PierceTheSkin Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 My Dad is a little bitch, so he hates it. He always wanted me to be pretty and pink like all the other girls. Sucks for him, that wasn't what I wanted. My Mom has always encouraged me to do what I wanted. Wether it was to be Emo/Scene, or be a total barbie doll, either way, she loved me. So she really doesn't mind at all. I have some friends that do though... Well... People I hang out with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovely<3Dreamer Posted March 18, 2012 Share Posted March 18, 2012 my mums like why so much black!! We are not going to a funeral! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rannon Posted March 18, 2012 Share Posted March 18, 2012 feeling guilty cos my mum used to be a goth and therefor doesnt care O.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurpleKitty Posted March 18, 2012 Share Posted March 18, 2012 (edited) my dad doesnt care how i dress, what I am as long as i treat him with respect and he actually encourages me to dress the way i want to... he even got me a studded wrist band........ but my step mum on the otherside... hates the way i dress, she thinks its a "phase" and believes i will be out of it in a year or so... i say pffft.... she complained i had too much black in my closet so i went and got red and purple skinnies.... shes like i go from one extreme to another.... she doesnt let me wear make-up, even though i have a whole heap of it. she believes that i am trying to be like other girls... that i have an attitude problem when in fact i treat her with respect unlike my cousin.... she thinks that the way i dress is just to fit in but yet when i dont want to do or wear something that other girls my age do she complains that im not like other girls >.< she thinks i have no problems in my life and that i am happy go lucky.... little does she know i suffer inside....i try and tell her stuff but she just brushes it off... im not even allowed to dye my hair!!! or have it the way i want to.... she wants me to be a total girly girly and to dress the way she wants me to.... some people tell me i need to rebel against her.... i am starting to rebel against her so i can get my way but sometimes i feel guilty as she can not have children of her own :/ haha sorry people i just kinda started rambling on >.< my advice to you Catch&Release is to just be yourself and slowly make changes to what you want to wear and how you want to look... as you get older your parents will realise that they cant force you to wear or do what you dont want to and you are your own person ... you have your own style! sorry if i wasnt anyhelp >.< Edited March 18, 2012 by Purple Witch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Misery Loves Me Posted March 19, 2012 Share Posted March 19, 2012 my parents give me a really hard time. i find my way around it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrimsonAngel Posted March 20, 2012 Share Posted March 20, 2012 my mom gives me a hard time about my clothing. I was wearing a chain the other day and she asked me why i was wearing it. I told her that it was my choice, not hers. she just said "oook". It makes me mad because when I was little, everyone told me i can be whoever i wanted to be. now they're tellin me I can't dress the way I want? I also want to be a tattoo artist. My mom looks at me like I'm crazy. Also my parents don't approve of the type of guys i like(the ones with tattoos and piercings). They also dont approve of my lesbian, bi, and gay friends. Nothing I say will change my parents minds. I just brush them off and tell them how I feel. Simple as that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
:)SmileNowCryLater:'( Posted March 20, 2012 Share Posted March 20, 2012 my parents have no choice but to except it. Wanna know why???? Cuz my parents used to be GOTH. So they have to put up with the way I dress cuz I dress like they used to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelica Posted March 23, 2012 Share Posted March 23, 2012 well straight up....i tell em what i think...get slapped, they step off spend a lil time debatin let me wear it for a while...an replay all over...my punk clothes are boss cannot stand preps...broke ones nose before though hahahahahaah 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfblood Posted March 23, 2012 Share Posted March 23, 2012 my parents hate black but i get around it somtimes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuicideDoll Posted March 23, 2012 Share Posted March 23, 2012 It's just because your parents are worried about you. My mom actually loves my style. She just hates the music. Which might be worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfblood Posted March 25, 2012 Share Posted March 25, 2012 my parents hate the music the look everything i have no freedom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mickey Posted March 25, 2012 Share Posted March 25, 2012 My mom just wants to make sure I don't go crazy Honestly I don't do the whole Emo/Scene black black black thing. I used to, but it honestly was a phase lol. My mom didn't really care when I did dress in mostly black though. She just said stuff like "colours aren't bad you know." But for the most part she just let it be and let me do what I wanted ^-^ My sister hated it... But... Oh well. LOL. Both of them hate my music so, eh xD My advise is talk to your parents about why they don't like it, and honestly try to listen to what they're saying and see it from their point of view. And then calmly explain your side, and how you like the style. If they're like hammer down, no black. Just tone it down a bit. Honestly, I'm not a parent, so, I can't say what they're doing is wrong. It just means they care about you, and are prolly worried. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxPocketSizedEmoVampirexX Posted March 26, 2012 Share Posted March 26, 2012 my dad is anti tattoo n piercings but i wnt tattoos n piercings...wen i turn 18 im goin to get tattoos or piercings (idk which one first) but my mum doesnt care wat i do....as long its not dumb n stupid... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXxxEmoAngelxxXX Posted March 28, 2012 Share Posted March 28, 2012 My parents hate it today my mom got mad and said my hair can be like the way it is idk what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxBrittanyxx Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 my dad hates the "emo" look he keeps tellin me that i wear to much makup and i need to dress in lighter colors but i dont care what he thinks this is how i want to be and my mom couldnt care less Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxBrittanyxx Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 my parents HATE my music Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurpleKitty Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 my dad doesnt care cause he used to be in the same sorta style but my mum really hates it all!! -.- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xx_flamingotriggerdoll_xX Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 My parents at first didn't like it, but later on i made it my profession in being a model so after then, they supported me:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaniellem8068 Posted March 30, 2012 Share Posted March 30, 2012 Idgaf!!!! I am who i am if they luv me like they say they do they would accept me! (n_n) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SariahShotTheMoon Posted March 30, 2012 Share Posted March 30, 2012 Both of my parents give me a little room to express myself and my sense of style, but then they just said I was pushin it too far. Just today my mom said I should be more like my sister, a happy, little goody goody who loves sunny days and all that crap..i wanted to say that Im just not that kind of person and that I wanna do things my way, but then again I'd feel guilty because I'd be breaking my mothers heart and disappointing my father. I guess what Im trying to say is that if they dont accept it, one way or another their going to have too. I try to lighten up a tad, but not much I like my style and im not gunna change it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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